"White PEOPLE DONT ALWAYS NEED ADVICE. SOMETIMES ALL THEY REALLY NEED IS A HAND to HOLD, an EAR to LIATEN and, A HEART to UNDERSTAND them. TRY NOT TO JUDGE HOW SOMEONE IS DEALING WITH A PAIN YOU'VE NEVER EXPERIENCED.REMEMBER,SOMETIMES, PEOPLE WANT YOU TO LISTEN, NOT TO TALK. In a world where we're constantly bombarded with information and opinions, we all love giving advice and think that we always need to offer and answer or a solution for others. However, The real big problem is that we've the perfect solution to every problem except our own. people seem to waste no time in telling others what their relationship should be like, who they should spend your time with, what they should eat and wear, who to vote for, what to believe in and what to reject. People often feel like they can't talk to anyone about what they're going through because they fear being judged or misunderstood. Judging others is the lowest from of knowledge as it requires no accountability, no understanding. Hence, listening with an open and non- judgmental ear is very important. By simply listening to other feelings, you can create a safe space for someone to share their thoughts and emotions. Sometimes, The best advice is no advice at all, and sometimes people need to advice but a compassionate presence, specially when someone is going through a difficult time, whether its a personal crisis, a loss or just feeling overwhelmed by the stresses of ever day life. Instead of telling someone what you know, what you went through , that may be similar to what they are going through, walk in love, peace and understanding by just giving your ear to listen, a body to hug and a shoulder to cry on. ©khushi"